Monday, May 31, 2010
Sunday, May 30, 2010
You can see the positive, motivational and sometimes thought provoking quotes from previous days here: http://ping.fm/r4h2Z Please leave a comment if you like.
"Be COOL, Be LOOSE!" - Gary D. Masters
"Be COOL, Be LOOSE!" - Gary D. Masters
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Friday, May 28, 2010
“Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere; safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly ...pointless.â€
The 100th Monkey
The 100th Monkey
A story about social change.
By Ken Keyes Jr.
The Japanese monkey, Macaca Fuscata, had been observed in the wild for a period of over 30 years.
In 1952, on the island of Koshima, scientists were providing monkeys with sweet potatoes dropped in the sand. The monkey liked the taste of the raw sweet potatoes, but they found the dirt unpleasant.
An 18-month-old female named Imo found she could solve the problem by washing the potatoes in a nearby stream. She taught this trick to her mother. Her playmates also learned this new way and they taught their mothers too.
This cultural innovation was gradually picked up by various monkeys before the eyes of the scientists. Between 1952 and 1958 all the young monkeys learned to wash the sandy sweet potatoes to make them more palatable. Only the adults who imitated their children learned this social improvement. Other adults kept eating the dirty sweet potatoes.
Then something startling took place. In the autumn of 1958, a certain number of Koshima monkeys were washing sweet potatoes — the exact number is not known. Let us suppose that when the sun rose one morning there were 99 monkeys on Koshima Island who had learned to wash their sweet potatoes. Let’s further suppose that later that morning, the hundredth monkey learned to wash potatoes.
THEN IT HAPPENED!
By that evening almost everyone in the tribe was washing sweet potatoes before eating them. The added energy of this hundredth monkey somehow created an ideological breakthrough!
But notice: A most surprising thing observed by these scientists was that the habit of washing sweet potatoes then jumped over the sea…Colonies of monkeys on other islands and the mainland troop of monkeys at Takasakiyama began washing their sweet potatoes.
Thus, when a certain critical number achieves an awareness, this new awareness may be communicated from mind to mind.
Although the exact number may vary, this Hundredth Monkey Phenomenon means that when only a limited number of people know of a new way, it may remain the conscious property of these people.
But there is a point at which if only one more person tunes-in to a new awareness, a field is strengthened so that this awareness is picked up by almost everyone!
From the book “The Hundredth Monkey†by Ken Keyes, Jr.
The book is not copyrighted and the material may be reproduced in whole or in part.
Read the whole book.
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Please Note:
The 100th Monkey Theory has been on the WOW site since 1996, and we occasionally receive letters claiming that it was a hoax or fake.
We contacted Penny Gillespie, who was married to Ken Keyes and participated in his work and writing. Here is her response:
I’m not sure what you mean by “fake.†The Hundredth Monkey is a real book and hundreds of thousands of copies were printed and circulated, often through university courses. People bought them by the case and gave them away.
The story of the hundredth monkey came from a writing by Rupert Sheldrake.
After our book was printed, there was some question about whether the study was authentic. Ken presented the story as a legend, or phenomenon; the concepts of morphogenetic fields and critical mass are very true and the story serves to illustrate them.
Hope that answers your question.
All the best,
Penny Gillespie
President’s Club, Platinum Wellness Consultant
www.5Pillars.com/pennygillespie
The 100th Monkey
A story about social change.
By Ken Keyes Jr.
The Japanese monkey, Macaca Fuscata, had been observed in the wild for a period of over 30 years.
In 1952, on the island of Koshima, scientists were providing monkeys with sweet potatoes dropped in the sand. The monkey liked the taste of the raw sweet potatoes, but they found the dirt unpleasant.
An 18-month-old female named Imo found she could solve the problem by washing the potatoes in a nearby stream. She taught this trick to her mother. Her playmates also learned this new way and they taught their mothers too.
This cultural innovation was gradually picked up by various monkeys before the eyes of the scientists. Between 1952 and 1958 all the young monkeys learned to wash the sandy sweet potatoes to make them more palatable. Only the adults who imitated their children learned this social improvement. Other adults kept eating the dirty sweet potatoes.
Then something startling took place. In the autumn of 1958, a certain number of Koshima monkeys were washing sweet potatoes — the exact number is not known. Let us suppose that when the sun rose one morning there were 99 monkeys on Koshima Island who had learned to wash their sweet potatoes. Let’s further suppose that later that morning, the hundredth monkey learned to wash potatoes.
THEN IT HAPPENED!
By that evening almost everyone in the tribe was washing sweet potatoes before eating them. The added energy of this hundredth monkey somehow created an ideological breakthrough!
But notice: A most surprising thing observed by these scientists was that the habit of washing sweet potatoes then jumped over the sea…Colonies of monkeys on other islands and the mainland troop of monkeys at Takasakiyama began washing their sweet potatoes.
Thus, when a certain critical number achieves an awareness, this new awareness may be communicated from mind to mind.
Although the exact number may vary, this Hundredth Monkey Phenomenon means that when only a limited number of people know of a new way, it may remain the conscious property of these people.
But there is a point at which if only one more person tunes-in to a new awareness, a field is strengthened so that this awareness is picked up by almost everyone!
From the book “The Hundredth Monkey†by Ken Keyes, Jr.
The book is not copyrighted and the material may be reproduced in whole or in part.
Read the whole book.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Please Note:
The 100th Monkey Theory has been on the WOW site since 1996, and we occasionally receive letters claiming that it was a hoax or fake.
We contacted Penny Gillespie, who was married to Ken Keyes and participated in his work and writing. Here is her response:
I’m not sure what you mean by “fake.†The Hundredth Monkey is a real book and hundreds of thousands of copies were printed and circulated, often through university courses. People bought them by the case and gave them away.
The story of the hundredth monkey came from a writing by Rupert Sheldrake.
After our book was printed, there was some question about whether the study was authentic. Ken presented the story as a legend, or phenomenon; the concepts of morphogenetic fields and critical mass are very true and the story serves to illustrate them.
Hope that answers your question.
All the best,
Penny Gillespie
President’s Club, Platinum Wellness Consultant
www.5Pillars.com/pennygillespie
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Health Care Reform - Positive Alternatives
Senator / Congress Person / Mayor
Attn: Mr. & Mrs. Political Leader
123 Main Street
The State of Texas, U.S.A
Dear Political Leaders,
I am interested in meeting with you to discuss the FIT for WORK portfolio. FIT for WORK is focused on bottom line profitability and the well being of employees through accident prevention, reduction and implementation of safe work practices. The FIT for WORK model, is the “cutting edge” of the Health Care system! As you know Health Care Reform is a topic everyone is discussing!
The FIT for WORK portfolio including Onsite Early Intervention, Evaluation and Testing Centers, as well as Environmental Health and Safety programs which reduce the drain on Worker’s Compensation Costs. These proven concepts are forward thinking and deliver a tremendous return on investment. We provide On Site services for some of San Antonio and the state’s finest businesses such as Frito Lay, Republic National Distributing Company, KCI, Checks in the Mail, Core * Mark, and HEB Grocery to name a few.
“FIT for WORK has provided on-site occupational health services to ***** *** for over 14 years. During that time they have more than exceeded our expectations for injury reduction and cost containment for ergonomic related injuries and illness. In fact, their organization was instrumental in helping us achieve the OSHA VPP Star designation in 2*** at which time our ergonomics program received a “Best Practice” recognition. FIT for WORK provides both personable and professional services of the highest standard.”
This Person, Safety Director - A Big Company
“I was the biggest skeptic, but from the beginning they proved to be efficient and effective. Overall, during the first three years we have saved almost $750,000.00 in direct cost, reduced our incident rate by over 75 percent, and reduced our workers compensation premium costs.”
This Person – Vice President of a bunch of stuff - Call me and I'll tell you the Company Name.
I am extremely excited to represent these positive, proactive solutions that save time, money, and most importantly are focused on employee health and safety. I look forward to an opportunity to meet with you soon to discuss the FIT for WORK portfolio. You can reach me at garymasters@wellworkforce.com, 210-495-8788 or on my cell phone at 210-422-1800.
Best regards,
Gary D. Masters
Director Business Development
FIT for WORK, LLC
Senator / Congress Person / Mayor
Attn: Mr. & Mrs. Political Leader
123 Main Street
The State of Texas, U.S.A
Dear Political Leaders,
I am interested in meeting with you to discuss the FIT for WORK portfolio. FIT for WORK is focused on bottom line profitability and the well being of employees through accident prevention, reduction and implementation of safe work practices. The FIT for WORK model, is the “cutting edge” of the Health Care system! As you know Health Care Reform is a topic everyone is discussing!
The FIT for WORK portfolio including Onsite Early Intervention, Evaluation and Testing Centers, as well as Environmental Health and Safety programs which reduce the drain on Worker’s Compensation Costs. These proven concepts are forward thinking and deliver a tremendous return on investment. We provide On Site services for some of San Antonio and the state’s finest businesses such as Frito Lay, Republic National Distributing Company, KCI, Checks in the Mail, Core * Mark, and HEB Grocery to name a few.
“FIT for WORK has provided on-site occupational health services to ***** *** for over 14 years. During that time they have more than exceeded our expectations for injury reduction and cost containment for ergonomic related injuries and illness. In fact, their organization was instrumental in helping us achieve the OSHA VPP Star designation in 2*** at which time our ergonomics program received a “Best Practice” recognition. FIT for WORK provides both personable and professional services of the highest standard.”
This Person, Safety Director - A Big Company
“I was the biggest skeptic, but from the beginning they proved to be efficient and effective. Overall, during the first three years we have saved almost $750,000.00 in direct cost, reduced our incident rate by over 75 percent, and reduced our workers compensation premium costs.”
This Person – Vice President of a bunch of stuff - Call me and I'll tell you the Company Name.
I am extremely excited to represent these positive, proactive solutions that save time, money, and most importantly are focused on employee health and safety. I look forward to an opportunity to meet with you soon to discuss the FIT for WORK portfolio. You can reach me at garymasters@wellworkforce.com, 210-495-8788 or on my cell phone at 210-422-1800.
Best regards,
Gary D. Masters
Director Business Development
FIT for WORK, LLC
Monday, May 24, 2010
Safety Consultant
Company Name: FIT for WORK, LLC
Division: Environmental Health and Safety
City: San Antonio
State: Texas
Country: USA
Job Type: Consultant
Date Posted: 4/1/2010
Job Category: Manufacturing, Distribution, General and Construction Industries
Job Position: Environmental, Health, and Safety Consultant
Salary Rate: Based On Experience
Email: forrestrichardson@wellworkforce.com
Job Description: OVERVIEW:
Responsible primarily for OSHA General and Construction industry regulatory compliance.
Assist in development and implementation of programs ensuring compliance with applicable laws, regulations, and permits for Environmental Health and Safety.
Develops, and coordinates educational programs and materials regarding Environmental Health and Safety compliance
Provides instructions to management and team members, using a variety of teaching mediums.
Compile, distribute, analyze and act on safety performance data.
Conduct safety inspections and audits to determine site and program status and needs.
Conduct incident and accident investigations and develop corrective and preventative action plans.
Plan and conduct EH&S training.
Communicate safety results, best practices and other significant information to appropriate individuals on a regular and timely basis.
Ensure emergency response procedures are current and reflect site activities.
Must have good interpersonal/leadership skills and be able to interface with all departments and associate levels.
MANDATORY AREAS OF COMPETENCE:
Environmental Health & Safety Compliance:
OSHA General Industry-Primary
NON-MANDATORY EXPERIENCE DESIRED:
OSHA Construction Industry
Environmental Compliance:
Air Permit
Industrial Waste Water Permit
RCRA Waste: Solid and Hazardous Waste, UST’s
CERCLA
Remediation Activities
DOT Compliance: CFR Titles 23 & 29
Motor Carrier
Hazardous Materials
DEPARTMENT SPECIFIC/NON-ESSENTIAL FUNCTIONS:
Other duties as assigned with or without accommodation.
MINIMUM REQUIREMENTS:
Education and Experience: Bachelor's degree in an Environmental, Health and Safety Field and a minimum of five (5) years related experience in management of OSHA, EPA and DOT systems, implementing policies and procedures and training.
All skill sets as stated below.
OR
Seven (7) years' related experience in management of OSHA, EPA or DOT systems, implementing policies and procedures and training.
MUST be able to convey OSHA, EPA, or DOT regulatory information to all levels of management, union and non-union employees.
Excellent verbal and written communication skills; strong presentation and organizational skills, strong computer skills required in Microsoft Office Suite.
Demonstrated ability to apply and understand basic to advanced mathematical concepts.
MUST be able to pass minimum required standard on all competency tests.
DESIRED CERTIFICATIONS:
ASP/CSP
OHST/CHST
CSHO
ARM/CRM
WORKING CONDITIONS:
The work environment characteristics described here are representative of those one encounters while performing the essential functions of this job.
Exposed to mobile work locations, air travel, driving in unfamiliar locations with directions provided, may occasionally stay in temporary lodgings such as hotels.
Will occasionally work within a classroom setting from conference rooms to maintenance shops to conduct requested services.
May also be required to be outdoors exposed to weather conditions of all types in the application of his/her duties based on client needs and requirements for hands-on training.
The noise level in the work environment will vary based on location.
Must be able to work in a team-oriented, fast-paced environment.
Willing to be able to occasionally work irregular hours to meet needs of client production schedules.
Potential to work from Client and/or Home Office based on needs of the business.
Reasonable accommodations may be made to enable individuals with disabilities to perform the essential functions.
PHYSICAL DEMANDS:
Regularly required to sit and stand for long periods; use hands to finger, handle, or feel; reach with hands and arms; and talk or hear, climb or balance, taste and smell.
Frequently required to walk and stoop, kneel, crouch, or crawl.
Frequently lift and/or move up to 20 pounds and occasionally lift and/or move up to 75 pounds.
Specific vision abilities required by this job include close vision, depth perception, and ability to adjust focus.
DISCLAIMER:
The above statements are intended to describe the general nature and level of work being performed by employees assigned to this classification. They are not intended to be construed as an exhaustive list of all responsibilities, duties and skills required of employees assigned to this position.
SEND RESUME TO:
sheyjewett@wellworkforce.com
WEBSITE:
http://ping.fm/RYRMT
Company Name: FIT for WORK, LLC
Division: Environmental Health and Safety
City: San Antonio
State: Texas
Country: USA
Job Type: Consultant
Date Posted: 4/1/2010
Job Category: Manufacturing, Distribution, General and Construction Industries
Job Position: Environmental, Health, and Safety Consultant
Salary Rate: Based On Experience
Email: forrestrichardson@wellworkforce.com
Job Description: OVERVIEW:
Responsible primarily for OSHA General and Construction industry regulatory compliance.
Assist in development and implementation of programs ensuring compliance with applicable laws, regulations, and permits for Environmental Health and Safety.
Develops, and coordinates educational programs and materials regarding Environmental Health and Safety compliance
Provides instructions to management and team members, using a variety of teaching mediums.
Compile, distribute, analyze and act on safety performance data.
Conduct safety inspections and audits to determine site and program status and needs.
Conduct incident and accident investigations and develop corrective and preventative action plans.
Plan and conduct EH&S training.
Communicate safety results, best practices and other significant information to appropriate individuals on a regular and timely basis.
Ensure emergency response procedures are current and reflect site activities.
Must have good interpersonal/leadership skills and be able to interface with all departments and associate levels.
MANDATORY AREAS OF COMPETENCE:
Environmental Health & Safety Compliance:
OSHA General Industry-Primary
NON-MANDATORY EXPERIENCE DESIRED:
OSHA Construction Industry
Environmental Compliance:
Air Permit
Industrial Waste Water Permit
RCRA Waste: Solid and Hazardous Waste, UST’s
CERCLA
Remediation Activities
DOT Compliance: CFR Titles 23 & 29
Motor Carrier
Hazardous Materials
DEPARTMENT SPECIFIC/NON-ESSENTIAL FUNCTIONS:
Other duties as assigned with or without accommodation.
MINIMUM REQUIREMENTS:
Education and Experience: Bachelor's degree in an Environmental, Health and Safety Field and a minimum of five (5) years related experience in management of OSHA, EPA and DOT systems, implementing policies and procedures and training.
All skill sets as stated below.
OR
Seven (7) years' related experience in management of OSHA, EPA or DOT systems, implementing policies and procedures and training.
MUST be able to convey OSHA, EPA, or DOT regulatory information to all levels of management, union and non-union employees.
Excellent verbal and written communication skills; strong presentation and organizational skills, strong computer skills required in Microsoft Office Suite.
Demonstrated ability to apply and understand basic to advanced mathematical concepts.
MUST be able to pass minimum required standard on all competency tests.
DESIRED CERTIFICATIONS:
ASP/CSP
OHST/CHST
CSHO
ARM/CRM
WORKING CONDITIONS:
The work environment characteristics described here are representative of those one encounters while performing the essential functions of this job.
Exposed to mobile work locations, air travel, driving in unfamiliar locations with directions provided, may occasionally stay in temporary lodgings such as hotels.
Will occasionally work within a classroom setting from conference rooms to maintenance shops to conduct requested services.
May also be required to be outdoors exposed to weather conditions of all types in the application of his/her duties based on client needs and requirements for hands-on training.
The noise level in the work environment will vary based on location.
Must be able to work in a team-oriented, fast-paced environment.
Willing to be able to occasionally work irregular hours to meet needs of client production schedules.
Potential to work from Client and/or Home Office based on needs of the business.
Reasonable accommodations may be made to enable individuals with disabilities to perform the essential functions.
PHYSICAL DEMANDS:
Regularly required to sit and stand for long periods; use hands to finger, handle, or feel; reach with hands and arms; and talk or hear, climb or balance, taste and smell.
Frequently required to walk and stoop, kneel, crouch, or crawl.
Frequently lift and/or move up to 20 pounds and occasionally lift and/or move up to 75 pounds.
Specific vision abilities required by this job include close vision, depth perception, and ability to adjust focus.
DISCLAIMER:
The above statements are intended to describe the general nature and level of work being performed by employees assigned to this classification. They are not intended to be construed as an exhaustive list of all responsibilities, duties and skills required of employees assigned to this position.
SEND RESUME TO:
sheyjewett@wellworkforce.com
WEBSITE:
http://ping.fm/RYRMT
Sunday, May 23, 2010
Saturday, May 22, 2010
"I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather that my spark should burn out in a brilliant blaze than it should be stifled by dry rot. I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet. The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time." - Jack London
Friday, May 21, 2010
Ladies and Gentlemen: Recently I was posed with the question if my daily posts were a front. As a human being I become frustrated, upset and I am not as positive as I should be sometimes. For the most part, I guess that's normal. We live in an ever changing and difficult world. The challenges we face as Americans, regardless of a person’s Nationality, Race or Political affiliation are frightening. – If someone wants negativity, doom and gloom, then they can watch the morning, evening or nightly news. – ME, I work every day to stay positive (it’s not as easy as it used to be). I personally feel if God allows me to wake up; then I am thankful! If time permits, I’m going to post a song or two and then dig up a few quotes. I hope it will make someone think, or smile, or share that with someone else.
I guess some people know why they are here on this planet and what they are supposed to do. Sadly, I’m still trying to figure that out. I know that I’ve always been positive; today I have to work at staying positive…that’s OK, I don’t mind that task. I truly hope you enjoy seeing my quotes from time to time and I sincerely thank you for reading them. Recently someone reached out to me privately and said they read my posts daily, they just never comment on them. That meant so much to me.
What I am trying to say is this is ME! I hope you like the posts and quotes! Thank you! God bless you!
In His grip!
Gary D. Masters
I guess some people know why they are here on this planet and what they are supposed to do. Sadly, I’m still trying to figure that out. I know that I’ve always been positive; today I have to work at staying positive…that’s OK, I don’t mind that task. I truly hope you enjoy seeing my quotes from time to time and I sincerely thank you for reading them. Recently someone reached out to me privately and said they read my posts daily, they just never comment on them. That meant so much to me.
What I am trying to say is this is ME! I hope you like the posts and quotes! Thank you! God bless you!
In His grip!
Gary D. Masters
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Good Thursday morning! Gotta crank out a report...the boss keeps asking...early morning meeting...some stuff, then some other stuff, the website, some calls, the report....hopefully, and a Mixer. Hey, I'm not complaining! I'm blessed to wake up and enjoy the Human Experience for another day! "Be COOL, Be LOOSE!" Gary D. Masters :-)
http://ping.fm/J8QD3
Do you remember the "Good Old Days" - When we were respected/feared as a Nation and we could laugh and know that Lt. Frank Drebon of Police Squad had it under control.
Do you remember the "Good Old Days" - When we were respected/feared as a Nation and we could laugh and know that Lt. Frank Drebon of Police Squad had it under control.
Good Thursday morning! Gotta crank out a report...the boss keeps asking...early morning meeting...some stuff, then some other stuff, the website, some calls, the report....hopefully, and a Mixer. Hey, I'm not complaining! I'm blessed to wake up and enjoy the Human Experience for another day! "Be COOL, Be LOOSE!" Gary D. Masters :-)
Ladies and Gentlemen; here is another article by Alexa Person that I enjoyed. Included is the link as well. Enjoy! :-)
Train Wrecks aren't all bad! - by Alexa Person
http://alexaperson.com/
How many times have you tested the waters (i.e.: “I’m just having a drink”) of a potential relationship only to suddenly find yourself neck-deep and being dragged down swiftly by the fiercely addictive undercurrent of Man/Woman-Crack (i.e.: that drink progressed to: “wtf, where are my clothes?”)?
Simply said, if you have been in a relationship train wreck and survived the aftermath (clearly you didn’t “off” yourself because you’re reading this), only to learn a little f***’n something, then you’re not helplessly standing at the train depot with the other sheep.
The brave, the strong and the willing, find the tenacity to drag their asses out of the murky, sticky pool (cuz yeah, who wants to kick a delicious habit) and sit reflectively on the shore (this can be really lonely and not much fun). Are you sitting on the beach bravely trying to figure your sh*t out or are you being a chicken sh*t and diving right back into the depths of your crack? All right, enough with the metaphors.
No, I lied; one more: A South Texas friend of mine recently reminded me of a great saying, “that’s the difference between chicken sh*t and chicken salad.” Love this! (Note: If you don’t have a straight-talkin’ Texas friend, get one. Someone you trust has to occasionally kick your ass into reality.)
Wake up and look around! Is the roof falling in on your relationships? Pay attention to the type of people you surround yourself with, their behavior and your own. Do you like what you see? Is there a pattern-hello?! Be brave and tell my about it. This is our blog. Your comments make my posts better.
My advice: when your relationships are crashing and burning around you, look for the light (not the afterlife kind; that’s a movie). Realize that your “picker” (not “pecker”, a big difference) is broken, and you need help choosing a healthier partner. The train wreck is all-good; it’s a landmark from which you measure your progress.
Don’t be a chicken sh*t, make badass chicken salad.
Train Wrecks aren't all bad! - by Alexa Person
http://alexaperson.com/
How many times have you tested the waters (i.e.: “I’m just having a drink”) of a potential relationship only to suddenly find yourself neck-deep and being dragged down swiftly by the fiercely addictive undercurrent of Man/Woman-Crack (i.e.: that drink progressed to: “wtf, where are my clothes?”)?
Simply said, if you have been in a relationship train wreck and survived the aftermath (clearly you didn’t “off” yourself because you’re reading this), only to learn a little f***’n something, then you’re not helplessly standing at the train depot with the other sheep.
The brave, the strong and the willing, find the tenacity to drag their asses out of the murky, sticky pool (cuz yeah, who wants to kick a delicious habit) and sit reflectively on the shore (this can be really lonely and not much fun). Are you sitting on the beach bravely trying to figure your sh*t out or are you being a chicken sh*t and diving right back into the depths of your crack? All right, enough with the metaphors.
No, I lied; one more: A South Texas friend of mine recently reminded me of a great saying, “that’s the difference between chicken sh*t and chicken salad.” Love this! (Note: If you don’t have a straight-talkin’ Texas friend, get one. Someone you trust has to occasionally kick your ass into reality.)
Wake up and look around! Is the roof falling in on your relationships? Pay attention to the type of people you surround yourself with, their behavior and your own. Do you like what you see? Is there a pattern-hello?! Be brave and tell my about it. This is our blog. Your comments make my posts better.
My advice: when your relationships are crashing and burning around you, look for the light (not the afterlife kind; that’s a movie). Realize that your “picker” (not “pecker”, a big difference) is broken, and you need help choosing a healthier partner. The train wreck is all-good; it’s a landmark from which you measure your progress.
Don’t be a chicken sh*t, make badass chicken salad.
http://ping.fm/o2Pye
Baby, It's you - Sammy Hagar
When I'm starin' into space
You wonder what I'm thinking of
No one's ever crossed my mind
When I'm thinking about you, my love
All my memories
My special fantasies
There's someone I owe them to
Baby, it's you
When I'm dreaming in my sleep
Many worlds I travel to
My soul is yours to keep
I always will return to you
Until we can fly away
Go where the angels play
Become a kiss from the sun to the day
Baby
Chorus:
Ooh baby, it's you
Oh yea
Ooh baby, it's true
Ooh baby, it's you
Oh yea
Baby it's you
When I'm beaming of light
So sure of myself and this place I'm in
It's always fresh and new
That something, I'm in touch again
And it's no mystery
How it happens to me
You're the one I owe it to
Yea baby
[Chorus]
Baby, It's you - Sammy Hagar
When I'm starin' into space
You wonder what I'm thinking of
No one's ever crossed my mind
When I'm thinking about you, my love
All my memories
My special fantasies
There's someone I owe them to
Baby, it's you
When I'm dreaming in my sleep
Many worlds I travel to
My soul is yours to keep
I always will return to you
Until we can fly away
Go where the angels play
Become a kiss from the sun to the day
Baby
Chorus:
Ooh baby, it's you
Oh yea
Ooh baby, it's true
Ooh baby, it's you
Oh yea
Baby it's you
When I'm beaming of light
So sure of myself and this place I'm in
It's always fresh and new
That something, I'm in touch again
And it's no mystery
How it happens to me
You're the one I owe it to
Yea baby
[Chorus]
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
*I found this article by Alexa Pearson; to be very interesting (it brought a smile to my face too). Attached is the script and the web link to the article. I am hopeful you will enjoy the reading. - Gary D. Masters*
Till Death do us Part - Really? by Alexa Pearson
“Not so much” is my wounded response…and I’ll say it twice (divorced twice, remember?).
Am I bitter and cynical? No, I am pathologically optimistic that a “Master of the Universe” will be brave enough to be my companion (the kind of bravery it takes to drop a rhino at 20 paces with a dart gun, I’m certain). The kicker for me: be brave enough to f*@k my own fear around being vulnerable and walk this wizard into my shadows. (Note: I’m not talking about magical thinking-that’s dangerous sh*t for women; it can easily create an engagement out of a casual dating situation-scary.)
Both times I headed down matrimonial paths, I failed and failed miserably. I wonder if getting married in Vegas had anything to do with it?
*Note to all the cute (it helps), sweaty (cuz you’re probably overdressed messes), nervous boys about to propose to the object of their affection: don’t get married in Sin City. Unassuming guests and family (including the bride) will get way too drunk, hung over, broke and pissed (also in the English sense of the word); that’s merely in the first few hours.
But I digress. So… what the hell? Is marriage a natural state? Are we genetically coded to jump from relationship to relationship, seeking in vain, the ever-elusive, dynamic trifecta: intimacy, love/attraction and companionship, ultimately resulting in marriage, a committed, monogamous relationship or heartbreak? That was a f*@k’n mouthful.
Is it actually possible to find a “soul mate”? A person we are so wild about that we would eagerly share both a bathroom and a bank account (actually, I can’t share either, so based on my own criteria, I will never have a soul mate. Note: I need new criteria).
Conversely, is it separate houses with a “hoochie hut” in the middle that keeps you together? You know, a hoochie hut: bedroom or house between your distinct living spaces where you meet for naked, hot, sticky throw-downs fueled by kahlua-based moonshine (helps with the sticky part).
So what is it? What keeps you together as a couple? As long as you are real and unafraid to speak your truth, I want to hear from you-anonymously, if you can’t stomach it.
My advice: Love and love big! Buy and wear great jewelry (I’m talkin’ gaudy engagement rings), but just don’t walk down the aisle, unless you’ve seen a kick-ass therapist, done the work and then done it again. And don’t forget to get a “Power of Attorney” signed, giving your best friend permission to take you to an undisclosed location and beat you senseless.
On the other hand, you could just forget it all and fly to Vegas. I hear Treasure Island has a great chapel… ask for the Diamond Package.
http://ping.fm/QiJdM
Till Death do us Part - Really? by Alexa Pearson
“Not so much” is my wounded response…and I’ll say it twice (divorced twice, remember?).
Am I bitter and cynical? No, I am pathologically optimistic that a “Master of the Universe” will be brave enough to be my companion (the kind of bravery it takes to drop a rhino at 20 paces with a dart gun, I’m certain). The kicker for me: be brave enough to f*@k my own fear around being vulnerable and walk this wizard into my shadows. (Note: I’m not talking about magical thinking-that’s dangerous sh*t for women; it can easily create an engagement out of a casual dating situation-scary.)
Both times I headed down matrimonial paths, I failed and failed miserably. I wonder if getting married in Vegas had anything to do with it?
*Note to all the cute (it helps), sweaty (cuz you’re probably overdressed messes), nervous boys about to propose to the object of their affection: don’t get married in Sin City. Unassuming guests and family (including the bride) will get way too drunk, hung over, broke and pissed (also in the English sense of the word); that’s merely in the first few hours.
But I digress. So… what the hell? Is marriage a natural state? Are we genetically coded to jump from relationship to relationship, seeking in vain, the ever-elusive, dynamic trifecta: intimacy, love/attraction and companionship, ultimately resulting in marriage, a committed, monogamous relationship or heartbreak? That was a f*@k’n mouthful.
Is it actually possible to find a “soul mate”? A person we are so wild about that we would eagerly share both a bathroom and a bank account (actually, I can’t share either, so based on my own criteria, I will never have a soul mate. Note: I need new criteria).
Conversely, is it separate houses with a “hoochie hut” in the middle that keeps you together? You know, a hoochie hut: bedroom or house between your distinct living spaces where you meet for naked, hot, sticky throw-downs fueled by kahlua-based moonshine (helps with the sticky part).
So what is it? What keeps you together as a couple? As long as you are real and unafraid to speak your truth, I want to hear from you-anonymously, if you can’t stomach it.
My advice: Love and love big! Buy and wear great jewelry (I’m talkin’ gaudy engagement rings), but just don’t walk down the aisle, unless you’ve seen a kick-ass therapist, done the work and then done it again. And don’t forget to get a “Power of Attorney” signed, giving your best friend permission to take you to an undisclosed location and beat you senseless.
On the other hand, you could just forget it all and fly to Vegas. I hear Treasure Island has a great chapel… ask for the Diamond Package.
http://ping.fm/QiJdM
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
“The master in the art of living makes little distinction between his work and his play, his labor and his leisure, his mind and his body, his information and his recreation, his love and his religion. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence at whatever he does, leaving others to decide whether he is working or playing. To him he's always doing both.” - James A. Michener
Monday, May 17, 2010
Sunday, May 16, 2010
I borrowed this from a friend: Whatever you give a woman, she will make it greater. Give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. Give her a house, she'll give you a home. Give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. Give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies & enlarges what she is given. So give her crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit!
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Friday, May 14, 2010
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Whataburger bringing back its barbecue chicken sandwich - San Antonio Business Journal: http://ping.fm/hvsl1
Monday, May 10, 2010
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Hubiera deseado que el cielo tuviera un teléfono para escuchar tu voz. He pensado en ti hoy, pero no es nada nuevo. Pensé en ti ayer, todos los días de antes. Pienso en ti en silencio. Lo que queda son recuerdos y una foto enmarcada... y aunque no exista el teléfono en donde estás, se que me escucharas. Te recordaré siempre. Te tengo en mi corazón... I love you, Mom!
Dear Mom,
HAPPY MOTHER’s Day!
I wanted to send up a note to wish you a Happy Mother’s Day and of course say Hi! It’s almost been seven years since we last had an opportunity to speak and look at each other face to face. I will remember that conversation and the look on your face forever! Yes, I’m sure you remember the conversation too. The look on your face was one that showed great pride and true joy!
I could stop and tell you about all the ups, downs, challenges and adversity I have been through during that time, but I’m sure you have the inside scoop. The important part is that I get down on my knees each morning and thank God for letting me wake up and I ask for forgiveness for all the bad stuff too. I still smile a lot, that’s what everybody says; of course if you would spend a few days around me, you would notice that I don’t smile as much as I used too. (Don’t worry, no one down here picks up on it, I stay on the move most of the time and I still smile enough for people to wonder what’s going on and what I’m up to.) I work hard to make each day worth the price I pay. I strive to keep it positive and focus on surrounding myself with positive people and try to avoid negative people and negative situations. It’s just a different day and time around here. Hard to explain, but it’s different…not bad, just different.
Yes, as you know … happened, It has been tough on all involved. There were so many things going on at many levels. Most importantly I am focused and moving forward.
You want me to tell you a HUGE mistake I made? I forgot the recipe for the Iced Tea! Yeah, every now and then I’ll find a restaurant that comes close. What’s wild is that I still have some of my High School and College buddies that remember your Iced Tea. Yeah I thought that would bring a smile to your face.
Mom, I hope you have a HAPPY MOTHER’s Day. Feliz Dia de las Madres, Te quiero mucho!
I love you, Mom!
Gary
HAPPY MOTHER’s Day!
I wanted to send up a note to wish you a Happy Mother’s Day and of course say Hi! It’s almost been seven years since we last had an opportunity to speak and look at each other face to face. I will remember that conversation and the look on your face forever! Yes, I’m sure you remember the conversation too. The look on your face was one that showed great pride and true joy!
I could stop and tell you about all the ups, downs, challenges and adversity I have been through during that time, but I’m sure you have the inside scoop. The important part is that I get down on my knees each morning and thank God for letting me wake up and I ask for forgiveness for all the bad stuff too. I still smile a lot, that’s what everybody says; of course if you would spend a few days around me, you would notice that I don’t smile as much as I used too. (Don’t worry, no one down here picks up on it, I stay on the move most of the time and I still smile enough for people to wonder what’s going on and what I’m up to.) I work hard to make each day worth the price I pay. I strive to keep it positive and focus on surrounding myself with positive people and try to avoid negative people and negative situations. It’s just a different day and time around here. Hard to explain, but it’s different…not bad, just different.
Yes, as you know … happened, It has been tough on all involved. There were so many things going on at many levels. Most importantly I am focused and moving forward.
You want me to tell you a HUGE mistake I made? I forgot the recipe for the Iced Tea! Yeah, every now and then I’ll find a restaurant that comes close. What’s wild is that I still have some of my High School and College buddies that remember your Iced Tea. Yeah I thought that would bring a smile to your face.
Mom, I hope you have a HAPPY MOTHER’s Day. Feliz Dia de las Madres, Te quiero mucho!
I love you, Mom!
Gary
Saturday, May 8, 2010
Good Saturday morning! Here in SA, the breeze is cool and pleasant. Today, I go into "kiddo mode" - Yes, I'm doing a scavenger hunt. I just want to have some fun! Best wishes to each of you for a pleasant Mother's Day weekend! Gent's take care of your Mom's out there! "Be Cool Be Loose!"
*Note: I have a special Mother's Day letter I will be releasing tonight or tomorrow.*
*Note: I have a special Mother's Day letter I will be releasing tonight or tomorrow.*
Friday, May 7, 2010
Friday, May 7, 2010
The Wooden Bowl
The Wooden Bowl
I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, A year from now.
A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year-old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and Failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. 'We must do something about father,' said the son. 'I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.' So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone.
Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, 'What are you making?' Just as sweetly, the boy responded, 'Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up. ' The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.
The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.
That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table.
For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, Neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.
On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens, how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things:
A rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as making a 'life..'
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands.You need to be able to throw something back sometimes.
I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you
But, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others,
Your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.
People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn!
I've learned that you should pass this on to everyone you care about I just did.
FRIENDSHIP CANDLE - NOTICE AT THE END, THE DATE THE CANDLE WAS STARTED. GONNA GIVE YOU GOOSE BUMPS.
I am not going to be the one who lets it die. I found it believable --
Angels have walked beside me all my life--and they still do.
*********************
This is to all of you who Mean something to me, I pray for your happiness.
The Candle Of Love, Hope & Friendship
This candle was lit on the 15th of September, 1998. Someone who loves you has helped Keep it alive by sending it to you.
Don't let The Candle of Love, Hope and Friendship die
Pass It On To All Of Your Friends
And Everyone You Love!
May God richly bless you!
The Wooden Bowl
The Wooden Bowl
I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, A year from now.
A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year-old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and Failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. 'We must do something about father,' said the son. 'I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.' So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone.
Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, 'What are you making?' Just as sweetly, the boy responded, 'Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up. ' The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.
The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.
That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table.
For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, Neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.
On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens, how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things:
A rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as making a 'life..'
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands.You need to be able to throw something back sometimes.
I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you
But, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others,
Your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.
People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn!
I've learned that you should pass this on to everyone you care about I just did.
FRIENDSHIP CANDLE - NOTICE AT THE END, THE DATE THE CANDLE WAS STARTED. GONNA GIVE YOU GOOSE BUMPS.
I am not going to be the one who lets it die. I found it believable --
Angels have walked beside me all my life--and they still do.
*********************
This is to all of you who Mean something to me, I pray for your happiness.
The Candle Of Love, Hope & Friendship
This candle was lit on the 15th of September, 1998. Someone who loves you has helped Keep it alive by sending it to you.
Don't let The Candle of Love, Hope and Friendship die
Pass It On To All Of Your Friends
And Everyone You Love!
May God richly bless you!
The Wooden Bowl
The Wooden Bowl
I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, A year from now.
A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year-old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and Failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. 'We must do something about father,' said the son. 'I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.' So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone.
Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, 'What are you making?' Just as sweetly, the boy responded, 'Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up. ' The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.
The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.
That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table.
For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, Neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.
On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens, how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things:
A rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as making a 'life..'
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands.You need to be able to throw something back sometimes.
I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you
But, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others,
Your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.
People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn!
I've learned that you should pass this on to everyone you care about I just did.
FRIENDSHIP CANDLE - NOTICE AT THE END, THE DATE THE CANDLE WAS STARTED. GONNA GIVE YOU GOOSE BUMPS.
I am not going to be the one who lets it die. I found it believable --
Angels have walked beside me all my life--and they still do.
*********************
This is to all of you who Mean something to me, I pray for your happiness.
The Candle Of Love, Hope & Friendship
This candle was lit on the 15th of September, 1998. Someone who loves you has helped Keep it alive by sending it to you.
Don't let The Candle of Love, Hope and Friendship die
Pass It On To All Of Your Friends
And Everyone You Love!
May God richly bless you!
I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, A year from now.
A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year-old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and Failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. 'We must do something about father,' said the son. 'I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.' So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone.
Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, 'What are you making?' Just as sweetly, the boy responded, 'Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up. ' The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.
The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.
That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table.
For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, Neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.
On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens, how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things:
A rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as making a 'life..'
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands.You need to be able to throw something back sometimes.
I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you
But, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others,
Your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.
People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn!
I've learned that you should pass this on to everyone you care about I just did.
FRIENDSHIP CANDLE - NOTICE AT THE END, THE DATE THE CANDLE WAS STARTED. GONNA GIVE YOU GOOSE BUMPS.
I am not going to be the one who lets it die. I found it believable --
Angels have walked beside me all my life--and they still do.
*********************
This is to all of you who Mean something to me, I pray for your happiness.
The Candle Of Love, Hope & Friendship
This candle was lit on the 15th of September, 1998. Someone who loves you has helped Keep it alive by sending it to you.
Don't let The Candle of Love, Hope and Friendship die
Pass It On To All Of Your Friends
And Everyone You Love!
May God richly bless you!
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